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Last year I wrote a post about checking with the parents (your adult kids) before posting pix of their kids (your Grands) on a social media site. I was neither prescient nor alone in calling attention to the photo-posting issue. Debates about publishing photos online have been going on since social networks became an integral part of our daily lives. It’s a pretty one-sided debate right now: 75 percent of parents share photos of their children online. (I’m sure the grandparent stats are even higher, especially pictures of those adorable toddlers wading through puddles in bright yellow galoshes.)

Dangers have always lurked from the dark side of the web, particularly concerns that online predators could harvest personal data. I’m writing about the issue again because a recent set of AI (artificial intelligence) apps take “sharenting” (parents sharing photos of their kids online)  to a higher level of concern.

Writing in the NYTimes,  Brian X. Chen, a tech reporter (and a recent dad), sounds this alarm in a personal way:

 Parents like me have joined the “never-post” camp because of a more recent threat: apps that can automatically generate deepfake nudes with anyone’s face using generative artificial intelligence, the technology powering popular chatbots.

In other words, AI apps generating fake nudes, amid other privacy concerns, make “sharenting” far riskier than it was just a few years ago.

The dangers are greater as kids grow from toddlers to teens. That’s a whole other and disturbing problem. Even for very young children, though, Chen suggests ways to make photo-posting safer.

Post the photos only on an account that close friends and family members are allowed to see.

Send photos to a few friends and relatives through text messages, which are encrypted.

Share photo albums of family pictures with a small group of people using online services like Apple’s iCloud and Google Photos.

I’ll end this post on the upbeat note I ended the previous one on photo-posting:

The rules do not apply to grandpups. Here’s one of mine.

Cody in car

art credit: David C. Driskell

photo credit: Palo Coleman

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One response to “Social Media Alert: AI’s threat to the joy of posting grandkid photos”

  1. Marilyn Trauner Avatar
    Marilyn Trauner

    Great advice — I’ll share it with my adult kids. Also, literally laughed out loud at the photo of your sweet grandpup.

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