PenPenWrites

parenting blog, memoir notes, family punchlines & more

© Penelope Lemov and Parenting Grown Children, 2025. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this site’s author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given.

© Penelope Lemov and Parenting Grown Children, 2025. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this site’s author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given.

No, of course we don't want to think of wills, estates and what we leave behind for our children–no less the non-monetary stuff. But a legacy–from what we did with our lives to the books we read them to the birthday cards we wrote them–has meaning that carries forward, along with the memory of us and our values. 

That said, here are some legacy-leaving words from an unexpected quarter: Ray Bradbury, writing in Fahrenheit 451. (Thank you MiddleSage for calling my attention to this.)

 

                        

“Everyone must leave something behind when he dies, my grandfather said.
A child or a book or a painting or a house or a wall built or a pair of shoes
made. Or a garden planted. Something your hand touched some way so your soul
has somewhere to go when you die, and when people look at that tree or that
flower you planted, you're there.

It doesn't matter what you do, he said, so long as you change something from
the way it was before you touched it into something that's like you after you
take your hands away. The difference between the man who just cuts lawns and a
real gardener is in the touching, he said. The lawn-cutter might just as well
not have been there at all; the gardener will be there a lifetime.”

Related articles

Ray Bradbury: Master of American Science Fiction?
Ray Bradbury Predictions Fulfilled (Infographic)
#DailyBookQuote 30Jul13 : Ray Bradbury's The Martial Chronicles
Monday Morning Reader: Elinor Lipman's insights on the joy of being the parent of a grown child
Monday Morning Reader: A political columnist writes about the sadness of seeing his child off to college
Posted in ,

2 responses to “Reader’s Report: Ray Bradbury’s insight on legacies applies to what we leave behind for our grown children.”

  1. Susan Adcox Avatar

    I once heard Ray Bradbury speak. What an unforgettable experience! He was a very wise man, and this advice is spot on.

    Like

  2. penpen Avatar

    I’d never been a particular fan of Bradbury’s–hadn’t read his books; not attracted to the genre. But my book club opted to read some “classics” and “451” was one of them. That’s the glory of book clubs–forces you out of your comfort zone. I can’t say I wanted to read more but I’m not surprised to hear he was a mesmerizing speaker with something real to say.
    thanks for dropping by and sharing your experience.
    penny

    Like

Leave a comment