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I know, I know: This is not what Obama's Sept 7 speech was all about. But hear me out: Those of us who are parents of adult children–especially young adult children leaving the nest and going off to college–can't help but notice that in his opening remarks he took note of parental pain and shared his with us.

Here's what he had to say at the University of Illinois 

… now that I have a daughter in college, I can tell all of the students here, your parents suffer. They cry privately. It is brutal. So please call. Send a text. We need to hear from you, just a little something.

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2 responses to “Observations: President Obama on the feeling of loss when kids go off to college”

  1. Christie Hawkes Avatar

    I love this. Good advice for children. Comforting for parents to be reminded we are all the same inside, whatever our outward trappings or position in life. Thanks for sharing. I found you on the GRAND Social.

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  2. penny Avatar

    I also saw this observation by Obama as reminding us that whoever we are we share happy/sad moments, especially when it comes to our kids.
    Thanks for finding me and stopping by.

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