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They've grown up and moved on. Here's poet Thomas Lux's take on the tempus fugit nature of it all and the ability–or is it need–to let go:

A Little Tooth

Your baby grows a tooth, then two,
and four, and five, then she wants some meat
directly from the bone. It's all

over; she'll learn some words, she'll fall
in love with cretins, dolts, a sweet
talker on his way to jail. And you,

your wife, get old, flyblown, and rue
nothing. You did, you loved, your feet
are sore. It's dusk. Your daughter's tall.

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One response to “Children Grow Up: A poet describes that independence best”

  1. Susan Adcox Avatar

    I love this poem! Before I saw the poet, I was trying to figure out who had written it. It sort of reminds me of Snodgrass’s “Heart’s Needle,” one of my favorite poems. I don’t know Thomas Lux, but I will certainly look him up. I really like the rhyme scheme. Does anyone know if this is a particular poetic form or just an invention by Lux?

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